If you have landed on this search, you are likely standing at a crossroads of spiritual exhaustion. You have tried the affirmations, the goal-setting, and the relentless pursuit of happiness—only to find that peace remains elusive. This is precisely where meets you.
De Mello draws a sharp, uncomfortable line between love and attachment. In Western society, we conflate the two. "I love you, therefore I need you," we say. De Mello screams the opposite: If you need someone to be happy, you do not love them; you use them. In The Way to Love , he argues that true love only appears when you are totally free. If you are afraid of losing a person, that fear poisons the relationship. To love is to let go of the need to possess. Anthony De Mello - The Way To Love -pdf-
The "villain" in de Mello’s meditations is not a person, but attachment If you have landed on this search, you
“Do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy?” De Mello draws a sharp, uncomfortable line between
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