"The state in which people are so involved in an activity that nothing else seems to matter; the experience itself is so enjoyable that people will do it even at great cost, for the sheer sake of doing it."
The Flow took them with no questions. For a while there was only the sound of water and the frantic, glorious confusion of being underwater together. When they surfaced they were laughing, breathless like children forgiven for being alive. They lay on the grass until their teeth stopped chattering and the town lights blurred into a single warm glow. the flow dan bacon link
A smell hit him. It wasn’t the usual scent of ozone and stale coffee that permeated the lab. It was savory. Smoky. It was the unmistakable, fatty perfume of frying bacon. "The state in which people are so involved
Dan folded the note into his wallet, next to the coin and the ticket stub and the remnant of waxed paper. He felt something settle, not solved but shifted—the way stones rearrange after a small earthquake. They lay on the grass until their teeth
You cannot force flow. The moment you think, "I need to be in The Flow right now to get her number," you have left the flow state. Critics argue Bacon sells a paradox: teaching a spontaneous state.
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